Accentuate the Positive

As the old song goes, you need to accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative. I have watched friends and fellow bloggers come under attack for their posts. Some of the responses are vile, out of scale and simply unnecessarily vicious. The pain, bewilderment and anger caused by these attacks is deep. The urge to retaliate in some way is equally strong. But invariably response only triggers more bile and ugliness. I’ve not had the misfortune to be attacked personally in such fashion. Perhaps that would change my attitude. But what I say to my friends is that they need to ignore the attacks. They need to consider the source and realize that other people reading this either already know, or soon grasp, that the attacks are false and inappropriate. To my regret, my words usually fall on deaf ears.

Marx Dudek posted on this topic, “Resisting Negativity“. I just met Marx the other night at one of her great “Hip-Replacement Therapy” DJ sets. I loved her musical selections and good humor. Now I know that she is wise and articulate as well. She has said words that are worth heeding and said it better than most who attempt this topic. As she says, do not only resist responding to the negativity, but find something positive on which to exert your energy. To me, if you do that, you triumph truly. You contribute to tikkun olam.

Write on, Marxi.

2 Responses to “Accentuate the Positive”


  1. 1 Oura Scribe May 5, 2011 at 12:15 am

    Love it. I’d like to catch one of her sets sometime as well. If you see me online, give me a shout will ya?

    thanks. Hugs my friend. Miss you and SL.

  2. 2 ahuva18 May 11, 2011 at 5:57 pm

    /me laughs. um Oura, you have to BE inworld for me to shout to you to come and play. *grin* *hugs* get your sweet self back in here.


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